◦ الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍ
“Men are the maintainers of women, because Allah has made some of them to excel others…” (4:34).
I want someone who can guide me , guide me in ways that I cannot be guided. I’m not perfect, no one in he whole is. But that’s how humans were created. We were born into this world with flaws, destined to meet your soulmate whose name is already written in your future by the Almighty.
Who will save women’s from the pits of hell if it’s not her husband? The responsibilities of a an Husband is big, he is the one who is ordered to protect themselves and their families from the Hellfire. They are to do so by ordering them to abide by the teachings of Islam in all respects of their lives.
Husbands are to enjoin their wives to dress according to the teachings of Islam. If husbands did not do so, they would be sinful; and if they did, but their wives did not observe this, it would be the wives who would be sinful.
The wives then would be regarded as disobedient to Allah’s orders and disobedient to their husbands, for women’s wearing lawful clothes (on going outside their homes) is a religious obligation like prayer and fasting.
Based on the above, if men neglected their duties towards their families in that respect, it would be as if they were throwing their families in the Fire, for they were not keen on protecting them from that end as Allah Almighty ordered them.
And Allah knows best….